What should I say whenever my girlfriend asks me why I love her?

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Mar 13, 2018 2:01 AM

Zahir Alam

Tech enthusiast, Traveller

31w ago

It’s very easy,just grab any English grammar book,copy all the nice adjectives or mug them up and next time when she ask this question just randomly throw this adjectives,like beautiful,smart,etc… She will be happy and you will be happy..

BOOM.. Crisis solved.. :-D

I was just kidding.

First,I do not know anything about your girlfriend so I cannot tell you what to say.

But I will tell you what I reply to my girlfriend.

Honestly,I do not know the exact reason why I love her,I just do,maybe that is what true love is about,loving without any reason. But a little appreciation of the charming qualities your girlfriend have now and then just to let her know what makes her more special or lovable is always welcome.

For that you need to know your girl really well and try to understand what she feels.

Never fail or never let an opportunity to pass by of appreciating your loved one.

Thank you.Hope my answer helped.

Au revoir.

Rich Pantini

Just a man.

149w ago

Stop whatever you are doing.  Get serious.  Gently, but firmly, run your hand along her shoulder and towards the back of her neck.  Wrap your other arm around her, and run your hand from the the small of back up to about where her bra-strap is or would be.  Draw her close to you as you gaze into the ocean of her eyes.  Take a quiet but deep breath through your nose, and then another.  And then speak these words slowly, passionately, and sincerely:

"I had spent my whole life searching for a girl that needed constant reassurance and saw nothing wrong with fishing for compliments, and then the universe sent you into my life, and my search was over.  And for that reason, I love you."

Then give her a long deep kiss, with saliva, and just watch her melt.

Olya Petrova

B.A. Interior Design, Assumption University of Thailand (2019)

32w ago

I do not know how many times I asked my boyfriend about it. For fun or when I was upset.

And he always has something to say.

He does not say that he loves me for my kindness and understanding only or whatever good it can be about me. He tells me that he loves me even when I am being such a mess.

You do not have to say only good things about her. Because she cannot be good all the time, right? Be honest, because you love real her, with all her flaws. Let her understand it.

She will appreciate your honesty.

And do not forget to smile whenever you say it! I am sure your girl loves your smile. (Because my boy’s smile is the best smile in the whole world for me.)

Sidhharth Singh

First hand experience of many relationships around me.

149w ago

There is a huge difference between knowing something and explaining it. You know that you are alive but you cannot explain this phenomena in any simple language. What does it mean to be alive? Does it mean that your heart is beating and that's why you are alive. Or you can think? Or you can feel the sensation on your skin. Or you can tell the difference between the colours around you. Or you can feel pain when hurt. Being alive is not associated with one explanation but it is the sum total of everything you are doing consciously or unconsciously as you go through every second, every moment of your life.

Now, when we talk about love, only those who are alive can love. Dead don't love. They lie down silently. Love can be simply explained as a catalyst. It speeds up the living process. Heart starts beating faster, you feel chill down your spine and what not. Love makes you feel alive.

Next time she asks you this question, you know what to tell her.

Good luck!

Bill Taylor

author of successful-marriage.blogspot.com

88w ago

Tell her that that question has baffled the best minds since the beginning of time.

Lots of valentines have a naked little kid with a bow and arrow. This represents Cupid, the Greek god of love. When Cupid plinks a man with his arrow, the man falls madly in love with the next woman he sees, and nobody can explain why, least of all him.

That's as good an explanation as any. The song "Some enchanted evening" says, "fools will give you reasons, wise men never try." It also tells a man "fly to her side, and make her your own." How does a man do that? The same way I made my wife my own - talk to her a while, then tell her you're going to date her. Details here:

When I did that, the wheels turned behind her eyes for a few seconds, she gulped, and said, "Yes." As a woman, she was more interested in being wanted than in wanting. She knew that the time would come when she'd have the flu, she'd be pregnant out to HERE, the other kids would be leaking at both ends, the house would be hip-deep in diapers, and she'd be too sick to do anything about it. If I was really smitten with her, I'd stick around and help her through it instead of running off. That kind of attraction happens quickly and she could see it.

She acknowledged my claim on her, but she laid out a few terms and conditions which are described above, specifically that I acknowledge that she was a treasure and not a toy, using those exact words.

We've been married since 1971. It worked because I wanted her strongly enough to meet her terms and conditions, she wanted to be wanted, and because she really did want to be a treasure for her husband.

The important point was that she knew enough about men to demand that I treat her as a treasure from the beginning. She tells young ladies to do that. If they guy walks away from a women who declares that she intends to be God's treasure for her husband, letting herself fall in love with him would be a BAD idea.

There's an old saying about romance, "It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that ZING!" The zing is the man's desire for one specific woman. If it isn't there, there's no way to make it happen.

There's another explanation of this concept at

After 44 years, though, I still have no idea why I was so drawn to her.

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