Things dads should never say to their pregnant wives

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Mar 12, 2018 7:15 PM


Besides carrying around another human in her body, her entire body system is currently experiencing changes she herself might not understand. Hormonal changes, physical and emotional changes so even a slight joke might come off as being offensive!  So for dads-to-be out there, here’s a list of things you should never say to your pregnant wife.
I know how you feel
Of course, you don’t know how she feels! Rather than saying that a simple sorry would do if she’s in discomfort or you actually doing stuff that would make her feel better.
Your pregnant tummy is kind of scary
Don’t you say that to her! You’re just gonna put scary images of childbirth in her head and triple her fears regarding childbirth! All she needs to hear right now is that you’ll be there with her comforting her all through those long hours of childbirth.
Are you going to eat all that?!
Question your wife’s appetite while she’s pregnant can cost you more than you imagine. Understand that she’s eating for two now and her body as many nutrients as possible so never comment about her increased appetite so you don’t make her feel insecure.
Do you think you’ll be able to slim down within a month after birth?
Never ever ask your pregnant wife this question; it comes off as being selfish and uncaring for what she’s going through. Remember you are the sole contributor to the fetus growing in her womb so you’ll just have to be patient with her all through, besides it’s entirely up to her to decide to lose weight or not!
I think our kids should be spaced a year apart
Mr. Husband please try to rein in your excitement to have a houseful of kids! Your wife should be the one to decide when she’s ready to have another kid since she’ll be the one doing all the carrying.

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