How can I identify true love from fake love?
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Mar 13, 2018 9:24 PM

Miera Scarlet
Online Marketing (2017-present)
4w ago
It’s very hard to know whether that person is truely in love with you or just faking it because some people are really good at acting and making it their everyday life. However maybe these tips could help you a bit but only you can really tell.
- Pay attention to what he/she says to you and does he/she talks to you about having a future together or not.
- When he/she says the three words “I LOVE YOU”, pay close attention to whether he/she is being careless or genuine. Does they look into your eyes or divert it.
- Think about whether he/she puts in the effort to be there for you when you need it or they would rather spend their time with other people and always gives you excuses.
- Ask yourself whether he/she does nice things for you out of kindness and generosity or not. Are they after something from you. Listen to both your heart and your mind. If you feel something is not right then face it with your head held high.
- Ask yourself whether it feels easy to be around him/her or rather it’s difficult instead. It’s not very natural to be around each other.
- Think about whether it feels good to be around each other or whether it feels like a struggle. If it’s true love, you don’t need to force each other to do anything either of you hate. You both would just be yourself around each other because both of you know that no matter what happens, you will accept each other without any pretense.
- If that person really loves you, he/she would fight through anything just to be with you. Nothing would make that person quit loving you. That is someone who cherish you with everything he/she’s got.
Like I said, only you would experience it and can decide whether that person truely loves you or just faking it. Think carefully and don’t be blind by love. Think with your mind and feel with your heart. If something is wrong, face that person head on and find out the truth behind all the lies. You deserve happiness when you have given your all into that relationship but that partner just took you for granted. True love is a beautiful and magical thing. If that person doesn’t truely loves you, then that person is not worth it and just move on. You will find a better person for you in the future that will love you with he/she have.

Hani H Yasin
studied at University of Bahrain
7w ago
Well it's hard to tell this way it depends on you and your partner and his or her personality sometime the begining is smooth and cute but then things go wrong and they break up . A true love is when both wants to be together no matter what happen if one is angry next person stay calm and wait for the time when the partner is in stable mind to listen . I think that's the biggest test for any relation is fight .the fight either make relation strong or weak fake love never last long if the person don't want to stay in the relationship it will end soon. I'm happily love married and me and my husband do face some srs argument but we end up cuddling together cuz we both wants to end the discussion and get back to normal.

Ramit Kalra
Student of Analytical Moral Epistemology & Kantian Ethics
5d ago
“True” love is when you feel calmer when you are near that person. It is still intense in its own way, but it makes you calmer.
Fake love feels like you are intoxicated.

Rahul Deopa
former Graduate Student (2014-2017)
7w ago
You should buy a lie detector test machine, it will cost you around ₹4000-₹5000 on amazon India.
If you someone said you that he/she loves you. Check her or him with your personal lie detector machine.
If you someone said you that he/she loves you. Check her or him with your personal lie detector machine.
:p I hope this machine will work lifetime for you. (1 time investment needed)

Kishan Kalariya
System Engineer at Tata Consultancy Services (2015-present)
7w ago
If someone really loves you then she will let you express yourself, she would just go away in relationship with One Direction. People usually doesn't even what other person wants, what are theit like and dislikes but real love will ask about yourself, they would be eager to know more about you and spent their quality time with you and your loved ones.

Subham Guha
7w ago
You cannot identify Love. Because love is something you feel. It is something that tells you he/she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
I believe there’s nothing like True Love or Fake Love. Because love is love. There’s nothing fake about it. Either you love him/her or not. There’s no in between.
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